The Lesson of Love -- Sandy Winn

Yesterday I lost a dear friend.  This special woman was in my life for 28 years.  Death tends to make us reflect on life.  What was this person's life all about?  What did they mean to me?  Are there any lessons, any takeaways, for me to apply?

My special friend had many talents, but her best talent was loving people well.  She made me feel I was worth her time.  She made herself available when I needed counsel or just needed a smile and a hug.  And what's more -- she did this for everyone she knew.  Imagine it -- a person who makes every other person feel they are her favorite!

Today there are thousands of people grieving because she is suddenly gone from us.  They are posting amazing tributes on her Facebook page.  There are dozens of pictures of her standing next to a friend and smiling -- as if each friend now treasures the fact that she especially loved them.

But amidst this grief there is also joy.  Feeling loved makes our hearts rejoice. The Scripture instructs us to "love each other deeply."  When we do that, opening our hearts and homes -- as Sandy did -- we empower others to love as well.

Sandy Winn has helped each of us to love well.  

Lorraine Mahan
10-28-2016

"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.  Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.  Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."
1 Peter 4:8-10

GOD, I NEED HELP!

The Helper

Read the story here:John 16:5-15

  Listen to story here: John 16:5-15 

The words, “God, I need help!” have come from the lips of every Christian at some point in life.  The wonderful thing about this short prayer is that God provided the help we need long ago—at Pentecost.  Inside every believer dwells an intimate, all-sufficient Helper with one goal: to ensure we grow in Christlikeness.

Even before we become believers, the Holy Spirit starts working to reveal the character of Jesus.  Remember the vivid story of scales falling from the eyes of Saul (later known as Paul) to end his blindness? (Acts 9:18)  A similar thing happens as we receive the Spirit’s instruction.  He pulls away our scales of unbelief and manifests the true nature of Jesus Christ.  First, God’s Spirit testifies to the saving power of Jesus; then, after we have become believers, He acquaints us with the Lord’s character through Bible reading and observation of God’s work in our daily life.

Our dependence upon the Holy Spirit should grow in tandem with our understanding of God.  As we learn of the Christ to whom we are being conformed, the Holy Spirit at the same time reveals our inadequacy to appropriate such divine attributes without His coping so that He may live out Christ’s character through us.  We trade frustration for peace, anger for patience, and shallow happiness for pure joy as we become more like the Lord we serve.  With the aid of our divine Helper, our old existence of lonely desolation is pushed away in favor of a triumphant Christian life.

-Author unknown

EYES ON THE PRIZE

It’s so easy to get tangled up in worries or even pleasures and get off the track in life, but we have a race to run!  

God has already marked out the course for us, so we just have to keep on keeping on. Keep your eyes on the prize.  Here’s how: FOCUS your eyes on Jesus.  Don’t take your eyes off him for a second, because he is the Only One who won this race and got the gold.  He’s the only perfect example of a faith that pleases God. 

He got to the joy God promised him, but he had to endure a cross of pain and suffering first, as shameful as it was.  Now that he’s gone through that, he’s been given a Throne of Glory in Heaven.  That’s got to be the ultimate medal.  He rules!

Think about it – every ambitious and ungodly force was arrayed against him, but he got through it.  He didn’t give up, he didn’t get discouraged, and we shouldn’t either!  Our pain isn’t half as bad as his was because we’ve still got our lives.

Don’t forget – God is like a father who only disciplines his sons for their own good.  Take heart! – your troubles are actually evidence that God loves you like a son.  

You can do this.

Hebrews 12: 1-13 paraphrased by ldm

THE SEVENTH WORD FROM THE CROSS

THE SEVENTH WORD
Jesus cried out in a loud voice,
"Father, into your hands I commend my spirit." Gospel of Luke 23:46

The seventh word of Jesus is from the Gospel of Luke, and is directed to the Father in heaven, just before He dies. Jesus recalls Psalm 31:5 - "Into thy hands I commend my spirit; thou hast redeemed me, O Lord, faithful God." Luke repeatedly pleads Jesus' innocence: with Pilate (Luke 23:4, 14-15, 22), through Dismas (by legend), the criminal (Luke 23:41), and immediately after His death with the centurion" "Now when the centurion saw what had taken place, he praised God and said, "Certainly this man was innocent" (Luke 23:47).

Jesus was obedient to His Father to the end, and his final word before his death on the Cross was a prayer to His Father.

The relationship of Jesus to the Father is revealed in the Gospel of John, for He remarked, "The Father and I are one" (10:30), and again, at the Last Supper: "Do you not believe I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words that I speak to you I do not speak on my own. The Father who dwells in me is doing his works" (14:10). And He can return: "I came from the Father and have come into the world; again, I am leaving the world and going to the Father" (16:28). Jesus fulfills His own mission and that of His Father on the Cross:

"For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son,
So that everyone who believes in him
may not perish but have eternal life.
John 3:16

Source: http://www.jesuschristsavior.net/Words.html

THE SIXTH WORD FROM THE CROSS

THE SIXTH WORD
They put a sponge soaked in wine on a sprig of hyssop and put it up to his mouth.
When Jesus had received the wine, he said, 

"It is finished;" and he bowed his head and handed over the spirit. Gospel of John 19:29-30

John recalls the sacrifice of the Passover Lamb in Exodus 12 in this passage. Hyssop is a small plant that was used to sprinkle the blood of the Passover Lamb on the doorposts of the Hebrews. John's Gospel related that it was the Day of Preparation, the day before the actual Passover  that Jesus was sentenced to death  and sacrificed on the Cross. John continues: "But when they came to Jesus and saw he was already dead, they did not break his legs," recalling the instruction in Exodus 12:46 concerning the Passover Lamb. He died at three o'clock in the afternoon, about the same time as the Passover lambs were slaughtered in the Temple. Christ became the Passover Lamb, as noted by St. Paul: "For Christ our Passover lamb has been sacrificed". The innocent Lamb was slain for our sins, so that we might be forgiven.  The sixth word is Jesus' recognition that his suffering is over and his task is completed. Jesus is obedient to the Father and gives his love for mankind by redeeming us with His death on the Cross. 

When Jesus died, He "handed over" the Spirit. Jesus remained in control to the end, and it is He who handed over his Spirit.  

The above painting is meant to capture the moment.
What is the darkest day of mankind becomes the brightest day for mankind.

Source: http://www.jesuschristsavior.net/Words.html

THE FIFTH WORD FROM THE CROSS

THE FIFTH WORD
"I thirst." Gospel of John 19:28

"The fifth word of Jesus is His only human expression of His physical suffering. Jesus is now in shock. The wounds inflicted upon him in the scourging, the crowning with thorns, and the nailing upon the cross are now taking their toll, especially after losing blood on the three-hour walk through the city of Jerusalem to Golgotha on the Way of the Cross."   Source: http://www.jesuschristsavior.net/Words.html

Jesus is fully a human being.  When he was on earth, before his resurrection, he had all the same needs that you and I do.  How else could he convince us that he understands our pain and has walked where we walk?  How else could he “learn obedience from the things he suffered”?  How else could he take our place and take our punishment?  And so he became the only human being worthy to stand before God:

 Then I saw in the right hand of him who sat on the throne a scroll with writing on both sides and sealed with seven seals.  And I saw a mighty angel proclaiming in a loud voice, “Who is worthy to break the seals and open the scroll?”  But no one in heaven or on earth or under the earth could open the scroll or even look inside it.  I wept and wept because no one was found who was worthy to open the scroll or look inside.  Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals.”  …

 “You are worthy to take the scroll
    and to open its seals,
because you were slain,
    and with your blood you purchased for God
    persons from every tribe and language and people and nation.
You have made them to be a kingdom and priests to serve our God,
    and they will reign on the earth.”   Revelation 5:1-10

THE FOURTH WORD FROM THE CROSS

THE FOURTH WORD
"My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" Matthew 27:46 and Mark 15:34

This was the only expression of Jesus in the Gospels of Matthew and Mark. Both Gospels related that it was in the ninth hour, after 3 hours of darkness, that Jesus cried out this fourth word. The ninth hour was three o'clock in Judea. After the fourth Word, Mark related with a horrible sense of finality, "And Jesus uttered a loud cry, and breathed his last" (Mark 15:37).

One is struck by the anguished tone of this expression in contrast to the first three words of Jesus. This cry is from the painful heart of the human Jesus who must feel deserted by His Father and the Holy Spirit, not to mention his earthly companions the Apostles. As if to emphasize his loneliness, Mark even has his loved ones "looking from afar," not close to him as in the Gospel of John. Jesus feels separated from his Father. He is now all alone, and he must face death by himself.

But is not this exactly what happens to all of us when we die? We too are all alone at the time of death! Jesus completely lives the human experience as we do, and by doing so, frees us from the clutches of sin.

His fourth Word is the opening line of Psalm 22, and thus his cry from the Cross recalls the cry of Israel, and of all innocent persons who suffer. Psalm 22 of David makes a striking prophecy of the crucifixion of the Messiah at a time when crucifixion was not known to exist: "They have pierced my hands and my feet, they have numbered all my bones" (22:16-17). The Psalm continues: "They divide my garments among them, and for my vesture they cast lots" (22:18).

There can not be a more dreadful moment in the history of man as this moment. Jesus who came to save us is crucified, and He realizes the horror of what is happening and what He now is enduring. He is about to be engulfed in the raging sea of sin. Evil triumphs, as Jesus admits: "But this is your hour" (Luke 22:53). But it is only for a moment. The burden of all the sins of humanity for a moment overwhelm the humanity of our Savior.

But does this not have to happen? Does this not have to occur if Jesus is to save us? It is in defeat of his humanity that the Divine plan of His Father will be completed. It is by His death that we are redeemed. "For there is one God. There is also one mediator between God and the human race, Christ Jesus, himself human, who gave himself as ransom for all" (I Timothy 2:5-6).

"He himself bore our sins in his body upon the cross,
so that, free from sin, we might live for righteousness.
By his wounds you have been healed."
I Peter 2:24

Source: http://www.jesuschristsavior.net/Words.html